I can't...

One of the things that really gets me is when a person spends several
minutes telling me why he or she cannot do something. Think about
it...how many people do you know who spend so much of their time and
energy telling you why they can't do something? I bet you can think of
a few.

Here is a thought...instead of telling people why you cannot do
something, tell people what you are wanting to do. When you spend all
of that time and energy explaining why you cannot do something or why
something won't work, you are left with very little time and energy to
actually accomplish something! You have a limited time and energy--why
waste it on discussing why you can't do something.

You have to make things happen by talking about what you are going to
do. I have never seen anyone get anywhere by complaining about what
they don't have. Remember, when there is no wind--row!