Women who have been attacked, assaulted, or have had their life threatened may have great difficulty coping with the stressors of life.
This can show up in many forms, such as relationship problems, frequent nightmares, high levels of stress and anxiety, as well as persistent irrational fears and panic attacks.
Participating in workshops to learn how to keep yourself safe is a fantastic way to empower yourself to make it much less likely that you will become a victim. These workshops often have a healing component to them. However, it is important to look at your own psychological healing and address what may have happened in the past.
Therapy is a great complement to the workshops on personal safety that you may have already taken. You will feel so much better about yourself once you have better self-confidence, sleep better, and have dealt with those negative feelings that may be holding you back. Remember, it is very important to focus on prevention and resolve past feelings that are still holding you back.
Below are some simple and powerful techniques for helping you to get through anxious times. Remember, what you tell yourself can increase or decrease your anxiety. Why not learn a few things you can tell yourself to reduce your anxiety? You are in control of your thoughts and you have the power to significantly decrease your anxiety.
COPING STATEMENTS FOR DEALING WITH ANXIETY
REBT Essentials for dealing with the "circle of anxiety"
• My anxiety is bad, but I'm not bad.
• I don't always have to feel comfortable, and it isn't awful when I
• My over-reactive nervous system is a part of my life, but it's not
bigger than life.
• Controlling my anxiety is important, but hardly urgent.
• Comfort is nice, but not necessary.
• I don't have to be the one person in the universe to feel
comfortable all the time.
• I don't have to hassle myself or put myself down for not coping
better with my anxiety.
Source: Bill Borcherdt. REBT Resource Book for Practitioners. Albert
About Buck Black
I am a licensed therapist (LCSW) in private practice who focuses on anger, stress, and relationships. I do this both in my Lafayette Indiana office and online. I also specialize in working with truckers and their families over the phone and on Skype at www.TruckerTherapy.com.